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Gary Tompkins's avatar

I'm a weird kind of guy...money and material things aren't what I'm looking for. Maybe that's because I never had much growing up and I never caught the fever for the things people call being successful. And all I've ever wanted is just what I need...not much more. But I need Christ I need to be closer to him...but I'm not good enough...I know nobody is but I'm less then not being good enough. But I know God gave us Christ and I don't want to miss out...I NEED HIM.

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Agreed, and thank you. I point out the above to add a needed perspective as to a reason (one of several, but certainly not the only reason) as to why it seems there are not that many of the poor, outcasts, disenfranchised, etc., in the pews.

You also mentioned skin color. All but the first of the 5 congregations I've preached at have been in the South. The first church I preached for was in the St. Louis area on the Illinois side, where I spent the majority of my childhood. There was and still is an all-black congregation in that area, whereas the congregation I preached at was predominately white (with one black man placing membership towards the end of my tenure there), and the congregation where my dad preached during my childhood was all white (before it ended up merging with my congregation after I left). I left that congregation in 2003 with it having only one black member. In 2018 I came back for a gospel meeting, and I attended there just a couple of weeks ago during the holidays. Now the membership of that congregation is about 70% white, 30% black. In 2018 when I visited they were on the verge of hiring a black minister and had already hired a black youth minister.

During my childhood I remember going with my family to attend the gospel meetings of the all-black congregation, where we were the only white people there. One of the families at that all black congregation lived 4 houses down from me, and I played street basketball in the neighborhood regularly with one of the sons in that family and was in chorus with another. Both of them were good friends of mine. Both them and I would always join up with the youth group of another predominately white congregation congregation in the area to go to Harding's Spring Sing (since neither of our congregations had a youth group).

When in 2003 I moved to Columbia, SC, the congregation I preached for was about about 60% white, 40% black, with both ethnicities prevalent in the eldership and deaconship. After I left, from what I can see on their website the ratio between black and white at that congregation is now about 50%. In Columbia there is at least one, but I think maybe 2, all-black congregations. During my time in SC I also was a teacher at a nearby preaching school overseen by an all-black congregation, and the majority of my students were black.

From 2005-2015 I preached in northern SC at an all-white church. The eldership invited black ministers to speak with regularity, and rebuked the one member who objected out of bigotry to the point where he publicly repented of it. During my ten years there, a single black woman placed membership, followed soon afterwards by a black family. The former stayed for about 4 years until her job took her elsewhere, and the latter stayed for about 3 years before they decided to place membership with the local all-black congregation. From what I could tell, everyone got along well with everyone.

I then moved to GA where I preached for 5 years at a congregation where the ratio starting out was about 80% white, 20% black, but by the time I left it was around 70% white, 30% black as several black families placed membership. Everyone got along well with everyone.

Where I am now in Murfreesboro, TN, it is an all-white congregation that had only 1 black member when I arrived. I've been there for 2.5 years, and have since seen another older black woman place membership, an older black man place membership about a year later, followed by another black man placing membership about 6 months ago. From what I can tell, everyone gets along with everyone. I'm still getting to know the Nashville area churches, but I'm almost positive that there are certainly all-black congregations within a 30-mile radius. At our Men's Days we do have attendees from an all-black congregation that I would guess is from somewhere in middle TN.

From my experience and observations as described above, I would say that segregated congregations still exist with our brotherhood in this country, but I would also say that integrated congregations are on the rise. It also seems that whatever segregated congregations exist seem to do so by choice as opposed to being forced to do so via the racist laws and culture of the past. I got the sense from that family who left us to attend the local all-black congregation that they didn't have a problem with us or feel unloved by us, but simply would feel like they had more in common with an all-black congregation. Thus, ethnic culture probably also plays a factor here.

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